ON BASHING GAYS
The Rev. Dana Prom Smith, S.T.D., Ph.D. (6/25/08)
After several decades as a psychotherapist in West Los Angeles working with many gay men and with a partner who was a politically active lesbian, I've concluded that gay bashing isn't only a hate crime but also a sex crime. Gay bashers are often, but not always, semi-literate, ill-educated "macho" types who are incapable of having successful, rewarding relationships with women. However, they're also found in board rooms and at country clubs as well. They subdue rather than win over.
In one of the most intimate of all human experiences, while the "bashers" may be able "to get it up," as the phrase goes, they can't get it up socially, ghettoed in a social homosexuality. Their one taste of power is to outnumber the vulnerable and bash them. In short, they're cowards.
Socially homosexual and contemptuous of women, they're profoundly impotent. As members of the Ku Klux Klan, they attack blacks. They batter women, abuse children, and bash gays, anyone socially vulnerable.
A society and thus its legal system are judged by the way the rights of minorities are protected and advocated, and that means the vulnerable. If ever they were a group of which the legal system needs to make an example, it is the "gay bashers." They should have the book thrown at them, giving them a taste of the abuse and humiliation they meet out to others so they would less likely to do it again. It's time for the conservative value of common decency.